The main difference between crushes and love is that crushes often happen when there is little chance of forming a relationship. These types of crushes are a safe way to explore your feelings for someone who you may think is unattainable. But sometimes the strongest variety of crushes occurs when the person is not completely outside of one’s reach. These can closely resemble love, and if your feelings don’t fizzle after you’ve snagged the object of your crush, they can lead to love.
Can you fall in love with someone you don’t know?
Yes, you can. But whether or not you can have a relationship is another matter. Usually this type of love involves a fantasy. The person who falls in love projects his or her feelings and ideas of happiness onto the love interest. And since a fantasy can often be as strong as any true-life situation, love in these types of scenarios is not out of the question. But be careful. Should you meet that person and they turn out to be very different from the way you imagined, don’t get depressed. Call it quit, believe God for the best and go on with life.
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Is it possible to be in love with someone who doesn’t love you?
Unrequited love is very common and has been around since before Shakespeare’s time. And while in the 19th century poets may have made it sound romantic, the problem with this situation is that it can quickly turn into an obsession if you’re not careful. Most people are programmed to want what they can’t have (also known as ‘the grass is greener on the other side’ syndrome). By simply being denied someone’s love, they can form feelings of attachment, which can turn into an obsession if left uncontrolled.
Another problem with unrequited love is that it can quickly become more of a challenge than a real emotion. Being rejected can rob someone of his ego, and in turn, this person may try to prove that he is worthy of love. On the other hand, if you feel strongly attached to someone because you respect and admire who they are, you may actually be in love.
Is there such a thing as love at first sight?
Some people are true believers in this phenomenon. These are usually the ones whose love at first sight led to a happy and satisfying relationship. Others, who felt this connection only to be let down, believe that love at first sight is really just lust at first sight,in some cases it is true. Nonetheless, it does happen more than you think. If you spot a person across a crowded room and feel a rush of emotions, don’t be so quick to dismiss your feelings.
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When someone falls in love at first sight, it’s usually an indication that the
love interest has evoked some pleasant memory from the past. Maybe they remind you of your parents, your first love, or even someone you used to love from afar. Many couples who have fallen in love at first sight have gone on to live happily ever after. You never know when Cupid’s arrow will strike gold, so go with it and enjoy the ride.
Please,even when you felt you had found love at first sight,commonsense dictates you get to know the person and his personality maybe you can walk together (the same purpose and complimentary) and fulfill purpose together.
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CHARLES.
2009-03-15 11:32:17
i believe you can actually fall in love with someone you dont know. you probably may have met on phone, internet, seen their pics or what-a-view. however, i have reservations for the internet thing. if you see and you don’t like what you see, you just move ahead and kindly tell the person off, though not expressly.
But there is a great need to get to know character wise though interaction before going headlong.
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